What's the number one thing you wish you knew before you came out?

  • We all come out differently, but is there one thing that you wish you knew before you came out?

  • 24d

    That the gay community is very clicky and if you don't fit withing thier ideal box you most likely won't get many friends from within it when you don't have support from your family.

  • I guess to differ from @stow, once I found the community (all be it was in Palmerston North, back when ClubQ and MaLGRA was about), it was good to find like minded people

    Yes, there will always be twats, but there will be nuggets of gold there too.

    I guess my point is; try and find your community.