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Should Ben follow his heart... to Florida?

Tue, 24 Jun 2008 17:20:38 PST

"My friends are all telling me that I'm crazy to be going to visit this guy. They are telling me not to go, but I very much want to."

"I've never been to a gay bar... I'm nervous"

Mon, 12 May 2008 13:13:23 PST

James from New Plymouth plans to visit Auckland's gay scene, but how can he get guys' attention when he's so quiet and shy?

"I've fallen for a straight guy"

Sun, 13 Apr 2008 19:07:21 PST

John from Chch can't stop thinking about his friend. Should he ignore his feelings, or make a move and risk everything?

"I think my boyfriend is addicted to porn"

Sat, 05 Jan 2008 10:37:27 PST

Michael in Christchurch says his boyfriend isn't giving him enough attention - is it time he pulled the plug?

"How do I meet guys like me?"

Thu, 27 Dec 2007 00:11:39 PST

A 19-year-old Aucklander says he wants to steer clear of bars, clubs, drugs, and 'sex websites'� so where else can he turn in his search for guys?

"I think I'm gay� How do I know for sure?"

Sat, 15 Dec 2007 12:26:48 PST

Sam writes: "Dear GayNZ, my girlfriend's been coming on strong, but I'm not sure about her and I think I'm gay. How do I know for sure?"

"Help me� I'm too camp!"

Wed, 14 Nov 2007 09:01:12 PST

"How can I butch it up a bit? I�m naturally camp, and sometimes get hassles for it. Any advice on how I can tone it down would be welcome"

How to come out at work (in a subtle way)

Thu, 01 Nov 2007 14:34:33 PST

"I want to be out at work, but I don't want to make an awkward announcement - I'm not sure how my all-male colleagues will react."

Breaking up is hard to do�

Sat, 29 Sep 2007 10:55:36 PST

A reader writes:
"How do you break up with someone without breaking their heart? Help!"

"I want more than just friendship"

Sat, 15 Sep 2007 19:47:53 PST

'In Love' writes: "How do you tell someone who's a friend that you feel more for them than just friendship... without sounding like a complete twat?"

"Should I come out?"

Tue, 28 Aug 2007 15:43:08 PST

"Is there any real benefit of becoming open, given the fact that I have no need to meet more gay people and am comfortable with my life at the moment?"

How can I tell if someone's gay?

Wed, 18 Jul 2007 12:29:19 PST

A reader writes: "I live in a small town and I don't know any other gay people. How can I tell if a person is gay or not?"

I need more than just sex

Tue, 03 Jul 2007 15:15:32 PST

�I can get sex so easily through using hook-up websites, but what I really want is a real partner I can share my life with. But I don't know how to meet him.�

Son bullied because dad is gay

Thu, 13 Jul 2006 12:00:00 PST

My 16-year old son is straight, and because I am gay he is getting bullied at a school with a homophobic headmaster which is being lazy about it.

How do I relax my arse?

Thu, 08 Jun 2006 12:00:00 PST

Martin is having difficulty relaxing during anal sex, and is relying on "a few puffs on a joint " to let things happen pleasurably.

"Is my fiance gay?"

Fri, 26 May 2006 12:00:00 PST

Amanda has discovered erotic pictures of teenage guys in her fiance's computer... does he have gay tendencies or is Amanda "just freaking out?"

How could my otherwise intelligent friend get HIV?

Fri, 10 Mar 2006 12:00:00 PST

Byron can't understand how an otherwise intelligent gay friend, in this day and age, could recently get HIV. He's losing respect for the guy.

Trapped in an abusive relationship

Mon, 06 Mar 2006 12:00:00 PST

Karen's young son is trapped in a violent, abusive relationship, alienated from his family. What can she do?

Alternative wording to "Civil Union"?

Tue, 28 Feb 2006 12:00:00 PST

Julie is looking for a warmer, less bureaucratic sounding alternative to "Civil Union Ceremony."

Hairy bod problem

Sat, 24 Dec 2005 12:00:00 PST

The first ever male love of Aaron's life has body hair and he finds it "rather foreign and off-putting."